Failures in my life

academically + affective domainly :P

i wish to have my own checklists table of failures in my life.....

so that i could fill it day by day,week by week,month by month,year by year...

it sounds so "bersemangat" right?

should failures being secreted?

i dont think so.....

people would say"membuka pekung di dada"

failures VS "aib"

they are two different thing...

Life can be seen through your eyes but it is not fully appreciated until it is seen through your heart.

I believe love is primarily a choice and only sometimes a feeling. If you want to feel love, choose to love and be patient.

Life is a long lesson in humility.

A promise must never be broken

A woman knows the face of the man she loves as a sailor knows the open sea.

Nothing is miserable unless you think it is so.

Say what you will, 'tis better to be left than never to have been loved

Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship - never.

Love is a game that two can play and both win.

A man reserves his true and deepest love not for the species of woman in whose company he finds himself electrified and enkindled, but for that one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy.

Sit Back & Relax

"Oh Allah,The most merciful,please guide me in the right path,please ease my way to grab the barakth from You, please shower Your Rahmah, You are the one and only I seek for help, Oh Allah Your humble servant ask for forgiveness of the past, please forgive me and show me the brightness of this life along my journey to be a good muslimah.Ameen"

Nobody Can Remove Hurt Except Allah. Even if someone tries to cause you any hurt, stay firm in your belief and remember that no one can cause you any pain if Allah does not desire it for you.

“And if Allah touches you with hurt, there is none who can remove it but He; and if He intends any good for you, there is none who can keep back His favor: He brings it to whom He pleases of His servants; And He is the Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.”-Quran,surah Yunus; 10:107

Don't let me be Misunderstood

Sign & Symptoms (Sx)

In layman's terms, "signs" are those "things" that we can see, and "symptoms" are those "things" that the patient tells us.

"Signs" brings very broad meanings as well as "symptoms".

In medical world these two terms very closely related to determine the differential diagnosis (Dx).

However this time around, im not going to discuss the layman's term but more relative to daily life.

Signs and symptoms sometimes help us to understand situation.In my personal opinion, sign is  given to make people realise and able to understand the meaning. It is applicable when "action talks more than words". While symptoms is the response of the signs. Let me give some example, when we are on the road, the red light is a sign for the driver  to stop. Thus the symptom "the driver stop the vehicle". Maybe some people might not agree and not applicable to human, but it still has a varians.  Dealing with human being or homo sapiens it turns quite complicated. People cant read other people's mind even parents & children, husband & wife, teacher & student,bosses & workers or even between siblings & between friends.Sometimes people fight for just a simple matter. There are several factor that effect these two links;1. gender 2. environment 3. upbringging 

Here some tips:-

signs - need to be clear 

symptoms - need to be justify (behavior)

The best metaphor "homeostasis"

we need three component to balance this integrated system...

receptor - control centre - effector

receptor = 5 sense ( what you see,what you hear,what you feel,what you smell,what you touch )

control centre = Justification ( how you detect,how you interpret,how you digest,how you control,how you decide& justify)

effector = Response ( be just,be wise,be independent,be yourself)

It sounds too idealistic.....

but to modify it to be realistic we need certain skills....

1. communication

2. social

3. psychology   

i wish to elaborate further in the next entry insyAllah.....

enjoy reading .....

take home message : husnuzon and dont make any early assumption before you understand the situation- we deal with people heart,mind and soul. Be wise and justice to ourselves as well people around us.....

~~~~Reflection~~~~

People, do you understand me now
Sometimes I feel a little mad
But don't you know that no one alive
Can always be an angel
When things go wrong I seem to be bad
But I'm just a soul whose intentions are good
Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood
People, sometimes I'm so carefree
With a joy that's hard to hide
And sometimes it seems that all I have do is worry
Then you're bound to see my other side
But I'm just a soul whose intentions are good
Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood
If I seem edgy I want you to know
That I never mean to take it out on you
Life has it's problems and I get my share
And that's one thing I never meant to do

Oh, Oh people don't you know I'm human
Have thoughts like any other one
Sometimes I find myself long regretting
Some foolish thing some little simple thing I've done
But I'm just a soul whose intentions are good
Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood
Yes, I'm just a soul whose intentions are good
Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood
Yes, I'm just a soul whose intentions are good
Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood

Happy Birthday - Mizah + Monalina + Sara

InsyAllah today my entry is dedicated to my trio friends who born on 31st october 1986/1988/1989

Siti Nur Ramizah Abd. Razak

Because today's so special 

it really wouldn't do,

to send one simple birthday wish 

to last the whole year through...

So this wishes happy moments,

a day when dreams come true,

and a year that's filled with all the things

that mean the most to you.

*

Hope all that you do

Turns out happy for you

And all that you wish

Comes your way,

So each hour will bring

Every wonderful thing

You could ask of a wonderful day

*

May your birthday bring

You as much happiness

As you give to everyone 

Who knows you

Happy Birthday my dear best friend.....

~~~my other half~~~

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Monalina Abu Hanipah

Because you’re very special

Hope your Birthday holds in store

Happy hours that overflow

With all you’re wishing for,

And hope the days that follow it 

Make up a year that brings

Everything that you deserve

A million happy things.

*

Hope lovely surprises

Are coming your way,

To make your

Birthday a

Wonderful day.

Happy Birthday

~~~my lovely sister~~~

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Sara Idris

These Birthday greetings are wished

Most affectionately your way

For someone who’s very nice

Deserves an extra special day,

So here’s wishing every happiness

Today, especially for you,

With lots of your favourite things

In the year ahead too!

Happy Birthday

*

Because today’s your birthday,

And because you’re extra nice,

One wish is not enough for you

And so here’s wishing twice…

Hoping your Birthday’s wonderful

In every single way

And next year brings happiness

For you day after day

Happy Birthday

~~~~my genius roomate(cingga)~~~

happiness VS money

Money cant Buy Happiness

MONEY can buy bed, but not sleep;

MONEY can buy books, but not wisdom;

MONEY can buy food, but not appetite;

MONEY can buy medicine, but not health;

MONEY can buy finery, but not real beauty;

MONEY can buy paintings, but not the artistry;

MONEY can buy a house, but not a home;

MONEY can buy luxuries, but not culture;

MONEY can buy companions, but not friends;

MONEY can buy marriage, but not love;

MONEY can buy clothes, but not personality;

MONEY can buy anything, but not heaven;

MONEY can buy tombstone, but not death;

MONEY can buy almost everything, but not the dignity and respect of being who we are!

Meaning of Happiness in Islam: Happiness is a feeling that resides in the heart. Happiness is characterized by peace of mind, tranquility, a sense of well-being, and a relaxed disposition. Happiness comes as a result of proper behavior, both inward and outward, and is inspired by strong faith. Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "True enrichment does not come through possessing a lot of wealth, but true enrichment is the enrichment of the soul."

health

Health - Important Tips

Answer the phone by LEFT ear.
Do not drink coffee TWICE a day.
Do not take pills with COOL water.
Do not have HUGE meals after 5pm.
Reduce the amount of OILY food you consume.
Drink more WATER in the morning, less at night.
Keep your distance from hand phone CHARGERS.
Do not use headphones/earphone for LONG period of time.
Best sleeping time is from 10pm at night to 6am in the morning.
Do not lie down immediately after taking medicine before sleeping.
When battery is down to the LAST grid/bar, do not answer the phone as the radiation is 1000 times.

Forward this to those whom you CARE about!